Wish I could be of greater help, but in case it helps at all, I know Tiffany Walker used to be featured on that very site. If you scroll down about 3/4 of the way on this page (resurrected via the wayback machine)
http://web.archive.org/web/20030622140315/tiffany.allowednet.com/control.html
you can see vidcaps from a couple scenes she did with the same XXL graphic. Perhaps on the Tiffany Walker experts like Gemini37 would remember the site name.