Ruth:
I would never have said that I *would* do boy/girl.
sure, i don't remember you putting it like that.
if memory serves (and it usually does) some member or other pretty much asked you directly if you'd even consider it, and you posted back saying "sure, why not, it sounds like fun". this was all sort of based on the hypothesis that ss might start doing b/g shoots (which they didn't). i didn't even take part in this myself... i knew i was only there for one month. very rare for me to join a site that doesn't include hardcore 
Ruth:
One things for sure; it has nothing to do with the demographic of my membership base. I actually have no idea whether the majority of my members would/wouldn't like to see boy/girl... :)
and you haven't thought to ask? 