Somebody said pornography is caused by diviation, by dangerous erotic behaviour. For me, it's just a great mystification... in other words, it's just the opposites: Pornography is only an effect, or response. There is already demand for pornography, and that's because Internet is offering pornographic media.

There is an established sense of disconfort... all of us have fantasies, thoughts, diviations - bigger or small. Obsessions and manias in the world of eroticm and we want them to be represented.

In today's world it's difficult for each one of us to represent. The obsessions end up becoming suffering that might ruin your life. When our obsession are brought into the open we lose the violence which otherwise would have been kept inside us. It's like an animal being chained up.

On the other hand, when we see our thoughts represented, we see things more ironically, we can laught at them and later lose the shame when we see other has the same fantasies. Not feeling quilty and isolated, we become liberated.

The idea that we are different, disgusting, is taken from our shoulders.


Only five hours to cleanup... hopefully everything is up tomorrow.

No matter what anybody can say at one time or another almost every guy out there has looked at porn.. its just a natural thing to do.. its natural to wonder esspecially when young about the female body.. The female body is a beautiful thing.. and yes it does make guys go crazy..

The idea that porn is such a horrible thing, I think is totally wrong.. I mean think about it.. There are worse things a guy could be doing then looking at porn on the internet.. They could go out and cheat on there wife or girlfriend.. but they're not, they're just either jerking it or getting even more sexual energy built up.. I'd rather have something to look at when jerking off then nothing..

Things could be worse in the world.. porn is certainly not a problem.. except for the assholes who put out the child porn shit..

No matter what anybody can say at one time or another almost every guy out there has looked at porn.. its just a natural thing to do.. its natural to wonder esspecially when young about the female body.. The female body is a beautiful thing.. and yes it does make guys go crazy..

The idea that porn is such a horrible thing, I think is totally wrong.. I mean think about it.. There are worse things a guy could be doing then looking at porn on the internet.. They could go out and cheat on there wife or girlfriend.. but they're not, they're just either jerking it or getting even more sexual energy built up.. I'd rather have something to look at when jerking off then nothing..

Things could be worse in the world.. porn is certainly not a problem.. except for the assholes who put out the child porn shit..


Well said... All the prudes agaisnt porn are gay men (priests, pope). Let the rest of the world enjoy nude womens...

Guys are not looking at porn actually thinking they could be with those chicks.. in their minds, they're thinking about banging them.. but in real life they know, they never could.. so no harm there either..

before coming here i had no one to talk to about porn and sex but now i have these boards on the net im free and since then im more confortable with the perverted fucker i am for good sake i cant sit in a car whithout foging the windows or were glasses either cause they, fog my freind keeps teasing me about that it does it worst going to the club or a party so to all my freinds here cheers

before coming here i had no one to talk to about porn and sex but now i have these boards on the net im free

yup, the same with me. The Net makes us all Anonymus, so we are free to talk about sex and similar stuff. Its a great relief for a man to be able to tell somebody about his desires - i think that visiting this site makes us all a bit "cleaner" or "quieter" if you catch my meaning...

Alk

i agree with the idea that looking porn is satisfying some inner beast, and after that we are maybe even more harmless for the outer world, because the beast is fed. but...does anyone recognizes that empty feeling that you can get after watching porn for several hours? i sometimes get that feeling. after doing it 3 days in a row maybe. it's the other side of it. maybe find myself a good women and have children

i agree with the idea that looking porn is satisfying some inner beast, and after that we are maybe even more harmless for the outer world, because the beast is fed. but...does anyone recognizes that empty feeling that you can get after watching porn for several hours? i sometimes get that feeling. after doing it 3 days in a row maybe.

yeah - that feeling of emptyness - i then get the urge to DO something, either play he basson (i attend to a music school), or pass another mission in BlitzKrieg, or write a poem(i also do that... well sometimes, when im really in the mood), or anything creative...

Alk

I believe internet Porn is a way to see whats going on in a less commercial enviroment. It's a way to rease frustration or even with this site....A way to help others with some senseless knowledge

On Amore serious note I look at internet porn as a way to pass the time, As I have no life.

scarface

I guess porn is fine, as long as you don't overdo it when you're in an actual relationship and don't rub it into the face of potential-girlfriends, because that tends to be a major turn-off. (at least to me.. don't ask me why I hang out with you.) A lot of women consider it 'cheating' or 'humiliating' when their boyfriends jacks off to other women, ESPECIALLY when said women have a body type very different from her own, or different skin or hair colour, or whatever. Women then think they're not enough for him, and they might get a serious self-image trauma (speaking of personal experience here.. I reached the point where I would rather have him cheat on me for real.)

I mean, yeah, I'm a feminist, but I hope you all watch out for your girl's feelings there. If you have to do it, make sure she doesn't find out.

I guess porn is fine, as long as you don't overdo it when you're in an actual relationship and don't rub it into the face of potential-girlfriends, because that tends to be a major turn-off. (at least to me.. don't ask me why I hang out with you.)
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I mean, yeah, I'm a feminist, but I hope you all watch out for your girl's feelings there. If you have to do it, make sure she doesn't find out.


hmm..yeah. i had some girlfriends who watched porn together with me. thats cool. but i also recognize things you say; like when i said i had some favorite porn girls they weren't happy about that. but what is the difference if women read these crappy books about handsome docters and d'árcys and that kind of men who i can't compete with? isn't that the same thing? maybe?

I mean, yeah, I'm a feminist, but I hope you all watch out for your girl's feelings there. If you have to do it, make sure she doesn't find out.

dont you think tht would be more like cheating??

my advice is, have caution, and try not to get involved with girls that dont like porn..

The emphasis was on 'if you have to do it.'

The best advise is anyway: don't do it when you have a gf.

And the difference between women drooling over actors is that womendon't get sexual satisfaction from that, it is no kind of replacement. Except that she might think about him when she has sex with you, but then you can't proof that.

And the difference between women drooling over actors is that womendon't get sexual satisfaction from that, it is no kind of replacement. Except that she might think about him when she has sex with you, but then you can't proof that.


but thats also a kind of treachery in my eyes - when you have sex with the person you love, and you think about some1 else, doesnt matter if its a porn actress/actor, or your collegue or even your boss. Porn is just a substitute of a real parter. I ask myself if i will dump it, when i find some1 appropriate...

Alk

P.S - I passed 100th post!!
i didnt think it will come so easily :D

Of course it's not the most decent things you could do, but then what men do isn't either.

And the difference between women drooling over actors is that womendon't get sexual satisfaction from that, it is no kind of replacement. Except that she might think about him when she has sex with you, but then you can't proof that.


no sexual satisfaction, ok. but i think a lot of gf's worry about porn because they think the man likes the porngirls more because they think they are prettier and sexually liberated or something. even if they know it is a fantasy of the guy. and that aspect i think, is the same as women drool over actors. not trying to defend or attack anything here...just wondering.......

You're right, it is very much the same if you look at it that way. Like I said, it both isn't nice.

You might even say that women obsessed with an actor are worse, because they don't usually just want to have sex with him, but they fantasize about being in a relationship with him and being loved by him, (well, most women do) which is certainly worse than just wanting to fuck somebody else to most people. Not to me though, I'm strange like that.

I just think that is has a lot more of an humiliating air to the partner when a man gets sexual satisfaction from a porn girl than a girl fantasizing about marrying Brad Pitt. That isn't something she does, and therefore it is much more innocent to me. After all, thoughts are never quite real unless you speak them out loud, which is when they start getting shapes, etc.

Plus, most women obsessed with Hugh Grant, Ben Affleck or Justin Timberlake are not older than 16 and mostly immature, while a man finding joy in porn is ageless. But like I said, it both isn't quite right in a sexually active relationship.

I have always had a natural gift for finding free porn, ever since I was 11 years old and I found a stack of moldy old Hustlers in the back of an abandoned '76 Pontiac LeMans in my neighbourhood. When the interent hit, it was like I had found the ultimate girlie-mag stash, and now I have fallen into a porno-pit from which escape is impossible. I had lots of excellent sex when I was 16 and 17, then I got crabs one day and that really freaked me out and I have been very cautious ever since. In my 20s I lived with a few women, but they all wound up leaving me after a few months. I don't know why. I never cheated and I tried to be really nice all the time and I would lick them wherever they wanted me to (both anatomically and geographically). One day I let down my guard and I got genital herpes and that really, REALLY bummed me out. Even though I have never had a problem finding willing women, I am much more comfortable just pleasuring myself because it is a very safe and harmless activity, and basically I can 'cum on demand'. With all this free digital porn, I don't have to go outside or spend money or talk to anybody or put on airs just to shoot a load. I just come here, pick a few links, copy the galleries, take my laptop up to my room and hump my pillow, and in ten to thirty minutes I am completely satisfied. It's too bad, but I have really lost patience with women over-all, and it is ulikely I will ever have real sex again, mostly because most attractive women my age are either married or have demanding careers and I don't believe in screwing up families nor do I have time for status-obsessed bitch-queens. Another problem I have is that the most emotionally and intellectually exciting women I have met recently are sadly very unattractive physically. I don't why this is and I wish it would stop.

if you're looking at porn and your intentions aren't to go stalk to the chick and try to rape her.. then you're ok.. guys just do it for pleasure.. we're looking for the best pair of boobs out there.. when we find them.. we know there's got to be an even better pair out there.. just a never ending thing..

if you're looking at porn and your intentions aren't to go stalk to the chick and try to rape her.. then you're ok.. guys just do it for pleasure.. we're looking for the best pair of boobs out there.. when we find them.. we know there's got to be an even better pair out there.. just a never ending thing..

a kinda never ending story
but i think when u will find the pair of boobs u were looking for your whole life, then u will stop looking for more...