You know from the videos - some guys banging doggystyle or behind, and the girl plays with her clit like crazy. Okey, I do hope the girl enjoys the sex as I do, but when her right arm seems possessed I wonder if she likes IT more then me.

Maybe it's because she likes masturbate a lot that way, dunno...

(I could have posted this to turn-offs topic, but it was getting too disgusting... so, here's a turnoff that's not so common.)

i have to disagree with u to an extent on that one..

I think it would be hot to have a chick doing that cuz it shows that she's actually into it rather then just lying there hoping u get done..  but in a sense I can kind of see why it wouldn't be good, if you can't get the chick off, so she has to do it herself.. that would suck..

but i do think its hot though..  but thats my opinion

okay well- some girls can't have vaginal orgasms, so clit stimulation is a must and besides that it feels good to rub your clit and feel your guy in you at the same time so it's a big turn on for the girl, they aren't doing it because you're bad in bed or anything it's just something natural that feels really good.

<3 Kase

jdk32498 wrote:

but in a sense I can kind of see why it wouldn't be good, if you can't get the chick off, so she has to do it herself.. that would suck..

Yeah... maybe I'm afraid that the girl doesn't politelly stop rubbing when I come... and if she stops, is she able to time her orgasms with her fingers? Questions, questions...

But I agree that the girl must somehow show that she's in it, and not act like a dead herring being raped. Like, moaning or moving her body, or something.

exactly.. and very good points kase

Kase wrote:

some girls can't have vaginal orgasms, so clit stimulation is a must and besides that it feels good to rub your clit and feel your guy in you at the same time so it's a big turn on for the girl

welcome to PeachyBBS, Kase...

If I was having sex with a girl what wants clit stimulation, I could try to make her happy that way as well. Well, if that's possible... but I'm afraid that only drummers can consentrate on the rhytm of two things at the same time.

Maybe it's just me, I'm so easily distracted when having sex (noises from a belt, door slamming), maybe because I feel too noughty.

I've always thought that the clit stimulation is a way they have always masturbated and want to bring it to the moment of having sex... but there are many uncontrolled things that make the moment so special. For example, I loved the way my ex always kept her tongue out and rolled her eyes.

since kase is a girl... i''ll take her answer as the best advice on rubbing...

point of sex seems to be both people feeling good... my very limited experience *i was a virgin until yesterday* convinces me you can never give too much attention to your partner... it all comes back around if you do... i've had girls tell me that they have felt other guys used their bodies to masturbate with like they were using a sex toy... and the guys could care less if the girls really came... that totally sucks i.m.o.

so if rubbing while being sexed by her bf or hubby makes a girl feel good enough to cum i say go for it...

my 2 cents...
brooding

As far as porno, it doesn't really bother me. At least maybe the actress is getting off too. And if it gets her wet and drippy, I'm all for it!
As far as a woman, I am with, doing it. The same applies. My only concern, when I'm with a woman, is her pleasure (I know mine will come easy enough). If it takes clit rubbin', then ok. I would prefer if it is something that I could do for her, so that I bring her to orgasm. I have done it, and it can be a little distracting. But that's ok because it helps prolong my getting to the point of  orgasm and losing concentration on her. Two girls have preferred doing it themselves, to control the action. At that point, I was little more than a masturbation appliance, but that was ok. Because we both ended up sweaty and satisfied. And some guys aren't ok with it, so when women find a guy who is, they remember you.
Hell, I'll wear a Batman mask and pink tutu if that's what it takes to get a chick off. So long as it doesn't involve substanial pain or something that will inflict damage (draw blood or bruise), I'm game. 

ur right juliafan2..  for porno its always good and in real life it is to..

certainly my main goal is to make sure the girl is pleasured before i even consider having pleasure for myself..  of course I have never had sex so I can't really say what it would be like during sex.. but I don't think it would both me as long as the girl is getting off to it.  I think it would make me more turned on becuz i knew she was into it and wanted to cum at the same time

I thought the old *reach around* was pretty much standard procedure when tooling doggy-style . I would rather do it for her so she can concentrate on staying stable with both arms and not flipping us off the bed and onto the floor . Believe me it's not fun especially if you land on your rigid pecker .

F~

yeah..  i would imagion that would hurt massivly.. u might break ur dick..  actually u could probably die from that do to massive blood lose

  not a nice idea...

As for clit rubbing : if the girl likes it, why not? It certainly helps to enjoy it even more... so if I was a girl, I'd probably also do it

In porn movies, I think, it's hot in any case - the more action the better. I'm especially into girls rubbing themselves during anal...

Its not what you do - but how fast you do it to get there

I don't mind a girl rubbing herself during sex, but I prefer to do it for her. I really enjoy being able to get a girl off, but if I can't I'd rather she did it for herself and that way we both enjoy it.

certainly getting a girl off is great for a guy..  but I'd say majority agrees that this has its perks..  and some of us see a few problems with it