We need the ability to delete posts! I just posted a link but it came back as not allowed. But now I can't get rid of this post!

I've seen on some forum(s) that users have a possibility to delete the post after a few minutes. But deletion of own posts cannot be added without a restriction - it would break the forum structure (posts are ordered as branches, replies are for some posts etc).

But I'll try to have a look if there would be a way to avoid those banned words showing as "not allowed" links, like some friendly message "please check your message for these words" etc.

On many forums you can use a 'report' button, so that then the moderators can check the post and set right. Maybe possible here?